Awesome69 Sex Tips and Advice

Many men have an unexplained fear of vibrators as they see them as a threat to their masculinity. Produce one in the heat of the moment and he’s likely to run a mile!

Your partner needs to understand that introducing a vibrator into your relationship can heighten both of your sexual pleasure, rather than doubt his prowess as a man. Persuade him that the vibrator won’t replace him, but will add to both your satisfaction.

Your man might not have even looked at the many different types of vibrator on the market today – if he hasn’t watch his eyes open wide as he sees the many options available on our site! From Rabbit Vibrators to Fun Vibrators – we’ve something for everyone.

Your partner may see a vibrator just as a dildo shaped and possibly larger version of his own penis – so what could you possibly want with one when you’ve got the real thing? Time to put him straight and explain that many women find difficulty achieving orgasm just through penetration and also need clitoral stimulation. Ok he says, ‘I can do that too’ – ‘yes darling, but wouldn’t you rather have both hands free to fondle and caress me?’

A vibrator is ideal for inducing super strong clitoral orgasms during sex (just try the Fairy Tail Vibrator to see what we mean!) as it takes the pressure off the man to get it right and give you an orgasm every time. Take note boys – us girls need a bit more than you just thrusting in and out, but we still love you just as much!

Communicate. Take a look are our website and show him some of the smaller, cuter sized vibes or the butterfly versions and tell him what they can do. (Forget the Rabbit for the moment girls – save that for later when he’s used to the idea!). Explain that he’s still your number one sexual fantasy and you’d like to try a vibrator to see if you can make things even better than they already are (flattery will hopefully get you everywhere!).

If he’s keen to share the vibrator experience with you you’re both on your way to new possibilities in your sex life. You could start by using it on yourself and letting him watch so he can see what really rocks your boat! It won’t be long before he’s dying to have a go himself. Take things slowly and enjoy the new pleasures together – keeping your sex life alive is all about experiencing new things that you both feel comfortable with.

Another way to persuade your man to indulge is to tell him that vibrators increase libido. The more orgasms you have the more you’ll want. How can he turn you down? Hot tip – the Femme Fatale Vibe is perfect for beginners and not too scary!

As with any online purchase, when you decide to buy something you want to feel confident that your personal details are not going to be abused and your financial details are secure.

Verified Retailers

Before you start browsing save yourself some time and check that the website you want to buy from is secure and reputable. Look for logos stating that the retailer is accredited for safe internet shopping. Click on the logo and check that it’s genuine as some companies are not authorised to use them. The company who certifies the retailer should list the retailers it has authorised to use its logo, which means it views them as a safe online retailer.

Making a Payment

One of the safest ways to make online payments is through Paypal because:

• Your credit card or bank accounts numbers are not passed to the retailer (you give these details to Paypal who do not release them to any third party).

• Paypal are an internationally recognised secure company used by millions of people.

• Emails are always sent to you confirming any transactions on your account.

• There is a complaints procedure that you can use if you are in dispute with the company you purchase from.

• You don’t receive a paper statement with details of your purchase for prying eyes to see (although you can print one off if you wish).

Deliveries

It’s likely you’ll want your adult toy purchase delivered in discreet packaging. Before you order check the company’s delivery policy, if they’re authentic they’ll state that their packaging is plain and there’ll be no sender details on the parcel. Some companies even show photographs of their packaging for your peace of mind.

Check if your order will need to be signed for – if it does you may prefer to take delivery yourself rather than ask a neighbour.

Be clear on the company’s returns policy, just in case your item is damaged or broken.

Other Ways to Ensure you’re Buying from a Reputable Company

• Look for hacker safe logos on websites from internet security companies that you recognise. Check how often the website is scanned for security risks, which will help protect you against identity theft and credit card fraud.

• A company that values their reputation as a retailer of adult sex toys will state that they only sell to over 18s.

• Don’t buy from websites containing explicit and potentially pornographic material. If you’re not comfortable with what you’re looking at on a website you probably shouldn’t be there.

• Only buy from companies that say they won’t give your details to third parties.

• Read the company’s privacy policy.

• If there are customer reviews read them. These may not always be genuine, but the tone they are written in usu

Any dildo genius will tell you there’s more to choosing your new playmate than just picking the one that looks good on the page. Yes, the one you’ve chosen might look like it’ll fulfil all your sexual fantasies (and it probably will!), but it also should be the right dildo for your personal taste. The best-selling 6.5 Inch Dong is a great choice for first timers.

Size Matters

Long or short, thick or thin? ‘One size fits all’ definitely doesn’t apply in the world of dildos! With the enormous range of lengths and widths available you need to be sure your dildo suits you perfectly. For beginners we recommend the 8 Inch Oversize Cock as it’s easy to hold and not too big or too small.

If you’re looking for something a bit more adventurous and satisfying then give the Prince Charming a whirl …. it’s impressive size and realistic shape and texture makes it the perfect love toy.

Help! Which One do I Choose?

To gauge what type of dildo will suit you think about how you’ll be using it to arouse yourself or your partner and what you enjoy. You may be looking for something long and sleek that gives you a smooth ride or might prefer a more realistic imitation of a penis complete with balls and head. Some partners will be in search of vaginal stimulation only whilst others will use their dildo for anal pleasure.

For a new take on the dildo experience double enders are a great way to share penetration with your partner and certainly give double the fun!

If you prefer to control the thrusting motion yourself you’ll find a dildo more controllable than a vibrator, although there are vibrating dildos available for the ultimate thrilling experience.

Some dildos are perfectly straight, others are slightly curved to deliver sensuous g-spot stimulation. Some are flexible and others are completely rigid.

Many dildos can be attached to a strap on device which fits round the wearer’s waist, allowing for hands-free penetration. These are great for couples wanting to try something different and are guaranteed to bring you both to the height of sexual pleasure. Talking of hands-free – the E-Z Rider just has to be tried for a really memorable orgasmic experience.

And don’t forget the lubrication to make things run that little bit smoother…

So if you’re looking for some variation in your love life or just want to liven up your solo sessions a dildo’s definitely the thing for you!